(You Can Be My Outfit) It Don’t Matter If You’re Black or White

You know those days? When you stare into the abyss of your closet, sucked into the black hole called “I have nothing to wear” slash “not leaving the house” slash “questioning everything about your life”. And then you’re Mom or your Dad or your Sister or in my case – my Byron tells you, you’re crazy! Look at ALL of these clothes! What are you talking about? And you respond with a quick but meaningful look that explains they have no idea what they’re talking about…

I pretty much have that day everyday of my life. WHY is getting dressed so hard? Either it’s a great day with too many choices, or the more normally occurring day of – nada…zilch…nothing to wear. To the perfect, flawless, alien people who can’t relate to this post, I’m sorry. But for the rest of us ladies who deal with this please know you’re not alone! Getting dressed is terrible and I wish I could wear pajamas everyday of my life.

Any who- all of that to say… This outfit was captured by my friend (Stephi of www.ragsandgrace.com) and it’s become my go to. I implore you to recreate it any of those days… we’re all strugglebussing our way through that high fashion life (insert eyeroll emoji here). Getting dressed should be the best part of your days, friends! Wear what makes you feel CONFIDENT and ready to take on the world! And at the end of the day, remember what outfit really matters….“She is clothed in STRENGTH and DIGNITY.” Pr0verbs 31 



Jeans, Topshop

Scalloped Tank, Topshop

Belt, Aldo

Jacket, Zara

Bag and Earrings, Chanel

Shoes, Via Spiga


Xx M





Awesome words and love the outfit! Thank you for your words. ?



I love your fashion sense! Thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement! ❤️

Cheraldina Mae Planas


I totally love the last part! And yeah I must agree with the statement “I have nothing to wear” XD

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